Our Small Town Life

Friday Favorites

2012-02-10T06:45:00.001-06:00

Today it's a little different Friday Favorite, as I was reading my devotionals this morning one struck a real chord with me. It came out of the book "From Faith to Faith: A Daily Guide to Victory" by Kenneth and Gloria Copeland. The devotional was entitled "Punch a Hole in the Dam."

It's all about a little faith can go a long way. Like the story of the child who put his finger in the hole in a dam to keep it from becoming a larger hole. He knew that one the force of that little bit of water could start a chain reaction that could bring down the dam. So my challenge is to put a little faith and break the dam that the devil has built around me and break it down a piece at a time. By using faith and the word of God I can tear down any dams that the devil is trying to contain me with.

Like the dam that I'm too busy to take care of my health. LIE I am a child of God and I deserve to treat my body like the temple designed by God that it is and fill it with nourishment and take care of it.

Like the dam that says we will never get ahead in our finances. LIE. It says in the scripture that the God will provide and that He wants his children to prosper.

Like the dam that says I can never be a good enough wife or mother. LIE. I know God can guide me and shows me the way in all things, no matter how big or small to take care of my family.

"Lord, Jesus, I know that you are a master of tearing down walls that confine us. Open Your word to me today and help me find peace and strength to break down these dams that imprison me. Your love can conquer anything that holds us down and can free us. Amen."

Good Mom...Bad Mom

2012-02-09T06:40:00.003-06:00

Really I couldn't have wrote anything that would say it better. So to describe my feelings today just read this post from Proverbs 31. Happy Thursday!!!

http://devotions.proverbs31.org/2012/02/bad-moments-dont-make-bad-moms.html

Just what you need...

2012-02-07T18:49:00.001-06:00

Isn't it funny that God always gives us exactly what we need. I won't go into details but over the weekend I heard some news that made me upset. Well Monday morning I was listening to my Joel Osteen podcast and his sermon was on "what to ignore." he talked that we need to be more like an eagle & soar over the crows in our life that try to peck at us & annoy us. It shouldn't surprise me that God always gives me what I need in a particular situation.

Sorry for being MIA

2012-02-02T13:44:00.000-06:00

I've been MIA these past few weeks. We've been shuttling the kids to basketball games, school, basketball practices and then on top of that there's a virus going around school and both kids have caught it at separate times. Plus add to that my Masters classes, spending time with the hubby, as well as some changes here at home. Nothing bad but if you have a moment you might say prayers for direction on where our family is headed.

I hope to be back more regularly since things are slowing down.

Wordless Wednesday

2012-02-01T13:56:00.001-06:00

Devotional Truth

2012-01-18T06:56:00.001-06:00

My devotional today was entitled "Get Yourself Together" and since I've been a little torn and unbalanced lately, I thought it was a sign.

It spoke of how Christians seem to have one foot nailed to the floor when it comes to their faith. They spin in circles, around & around and never seem to grow. They will say they believe the Word, but then in the next breath say they know God is in control but they are so worried about their finances they can't sleep. They are unable to put their whole life in God's hands.

To get yourself together, you have to get your spirit, soul, and body in alignment. My devotional pointed out the way to do that is by:

1) Feeding your spirit with the word. Spend daily time with the word, meditate on it.
2) Set your mind on "things above" to get your soul in line.
3) Get your body in line by teaching it to act, on the truth that has been planted in your mind and spirit by the Word.

They scripture that went with the devotional was 1 Thessalonians 5:14-24

¹⁴ And we urge you, brothers and sisters, warn those who are idle and disruptive, encourage the disheartened, help the weak, be patient with everyone. ¹⁵ Make sure that nobody pays back wrong for wrong, but always strive to do what is good for each other and for everyone else.

¹⁶ Rejoice always, ¹⁷ pray continually, ¹⁸ give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.

¹⁹ Do not quench the Spirit. ²⁰ Do not treat prophecies with contempt ²¹ but test them all; hold on to what is good, ²² reject every kind of evil.

²³ May God himself, the God of peace, sanctify you through and through. May your whole spirit, soul and body be kept blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ. ²⁴The one who calls you is faithful, and he will do it.

Have a Wonderful Wednesday!!!

New Year...New Beginnings

2012-01-16T21:05:00.001-06:00

I always love the new year. It always reminds me of a new beginning, to start over, to start anew. I try not to stress about "resolutions" but as the years go by and I get older, I realize that I need to set "goals" not resolutions in order to keep growing.

Some of my goals for the new year include:

1) Learning to manage my time better. (I think this will be an ongoing thing for YEARS!!) I have a bad habit of attempting to be organized and to manage my time, but it always goes haywire. This year my goal is to find a system that works for me and stick with it.

2) to run 320 miles before my 32nd birthday on June 6th. I like it, it's a nice round, do-able number.

3) To continue to grow in my relationship with Christ. I feel like I did change and grow last year, and I want to continue to do that.

4) to spend regular time with my handsome hubby and my great kids. These days when they are little and want to be with us won't last forever, and I want to cherish each moment.

5) To become more of "me" not who I think that the world wants me to be. I think with the good Lord above, and His help, it can happen. Like I said before I'm entering my 32nd year, and I want it to just keep getting better and better.

Sunday Scripture

2012-01-15T09:01:00.001-06:00

Tell the older women to behave as those who love the Lord should. They must not gossip about others or be slaves of wine. They must teach what is proper, so the younger women will be loving wives and mothers. Each of the younger women must be sensible and kind, as well as a good homemaker, who puts her own husband first. Then no one can say insulting things about God’s message. (Titus 2:3-5 CEV)

- just a small town girl on the go

Goodbye 2011!!

2012-01-10T22:04:00.001-06:00

I realize that I haven't blogged since the end of 2011.

Good-bye 2011! It was nice to get through the year and be content and by joyful.

Oh what a year it was...

My son started First Grade and turned 7 years old!!

My daughter started pre-k and turned 4 years old!!

My husband and I celebrated our 8 year anniversary in June!!

My grandmother celebrated her 80th birthday!!

We had a blast this summer playing at the pool, hanging out with friends, and spending time with each other and friends.

We had a bad snowstorm sweep through Texas earlier in the year, that made us miss a WHOLE WEEK of school. It was so much fun staying warm and playing with my kids the whole week.

I finished 9 hours toward my Master's degree.

We took my son to his first trip to Six Flags and to ride his first roller coaster.

Two of my best friends had two brand new babies, and they are absolutely adorable!!!

2011 was a great year laughing with my husband and kids, and having fun the whole year. I'm praying for a blessed 2012!!

Thankful Thursday

2011-12-29T23:34:00.001-06:00

On this Thursday I am thankful for...

1) a break from my masters class for a little while. I have about 4 more semesters to go..man, that doesn't sound so long, definitely better than I have a year & a half to go!!

2) my job that allows me to take a Christmas break the same time as my kiddos. Definitely needed a break to recharge

3) a clean home. I spent today thoroughly cleaning my bedroom & some of my living room plus laundry, but oh it's so nice to look around my clean bedroom as I type this.

4) feeling tired but still have enough energy to get ready for bed. I have been content while I drift off to sleep for the first time in awhile..it's a great feeling

5) warmer weather days before it gets cold again. Gotta love the bipolar Texas weather. Sometimes I swear weather here has several personalities.

Blessings to you all!!

- just a small town girl on the go

Wordless Wednesday

2011-12-28T19:31:00.001-06:00

Four years ago

2011-12-27T17:02:00.001-06:00

Four years ago today God brought into our lives a little firecracker of a girl. She's made our family complete.

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Thankful thursday

2011-12-22T17:56:00.001-06:00

What I'm thankful for this Thursday..

1) watching movies with the kiddos today

2) a warm dinner shared with those I love

3) my hardworking hubby

4) a community program that reaches out to those in need in our town. I'm thankful to help out with it

5) Taking the kids to go see Santa this afternoon

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Long days...

2011-12-18T23:05:00.001-06:00

I've heard that when raising children , you have long days but short years. I have to admit that sometimes my children stretch me. But there are days that seem almost perfect. Today we went to church & the kids sang several Christmas songs. Then we came home & spent the afternoon relaxing.

This evening the kids watched a movie together & then I laid down with each of them & Miss E fell asleep beside me. It's days like this that makes me wish I could slow down time. Make it just crawl so I can stretch out these moments with the ones I love.

- just a small town girl on the go

Wordless Wednesday

2011-12-14T15:20:00.001-06:00

My little sheep in the play at school. She's the one in the middle, isn't she adorable!!

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Christmas Is...

2011-12-14T11:03:00.001-06:00

ChristmasIs...

Christmasis being gathered around the Christmas tree Christmas Eve night listening tothe story of the birth of Jesus. It’s about looking at those around you andthanking God that you are surrounded by family.

Christmasis reaching out and helping our brothers and sisters all around our communityand this world. It’s about thanking the Lord for what you have and wanting toshare it with those who do not.

Christmasis a kind word to a stranger, a blanket to those who are cold, a prayer for aloved one, a hug to a child that is hurting. It’s about loving others as muchas the Lord loves you.

Christmasis remembering Christmas’s past where those we loved were still with us, aprayer for those who have to spend this time alone. It’s about being grateful for those times withour loved ones that have gone, remembering those times with more laughter thantears.

Christmasis in a child’s laughter, in the kiss of your husband or wife, in an unexpectedgift from a loved one. It’s about being in the moment with those you love andpraising the Lord for the blessings He has bestowed upon you.

Christmasis in all these things; and it doesn’t end on December 25^th. Thepower and love of Christmas wasn’t contained in a tiny manger. It reached out beyond a small stable andembraced the world. This year please remember the love and light that came tous that day long ago. Carry it out beyond these walls out into the world. Don’tpack away Christmas with the decorations, but carry Jesus’ light and love withyou throughout the year.

Little Blessings..

2011-12-07T16:01:00.001-06:00

I have to say sometimes God just amazes me. Little blessings here and there He has bestowed upon me.

Monday was a no good bad day for a few reasons. Tuesday brought a blessing. A co-worker gave me an unexpected gift that I have been wanting for awhile. It was so thoughtful it almost made me cry. It was amazing that God gave her that thought and it was something I've been wanting for months now.

Today brought another blessing. I've been needing a new pair of black boots to wear to work. I thought of it this morning in passing. I've borrowed my mom's boots and I'm sure she is wanting them back. I walked into the lounge today to check and see if we had any mail. There was a box with some gently worn black boots for ten dollar that another coworker was selling. I nearly laughed out loud!!

Today I'm grateful for little blessings..

unexpected gifts..

unexpected deals...

the health and safety of my loved ones..

A warm fire to curl up to on these cold nights..

A frisky black kitten making me laugh..

Coffee and quite time with the Lord in the mornings..

A hug from my kids..

A kiss from my husband..

Thank you Lord for little blessings..

On A Sunday Morning..

2011-12-05T06:01:00.001-06:00

I have to admit that this weekend my children were "stretching" me quite a bit. I've tried deep breathing techniques and counting to ten but I finally had to put myself in time out with a bubble bath and a book. (Hey a mom's gotta do what a mom's gotta do)

To share a funny story with you, and I'm sure you've got a few of your own, my daughter Miss E stretched me at church yesterday morning. My children had been set up to acolyte at church. This involves carrying a device that has a very small candle sticking out the end (I'm sorry I don't know the name of it) that is lit down the aisle at church to light the candles on the alter. Really you can think of the mass problems that could occur of some little ladies hairspray going up in flames because a kid swung to far to the right or left. My son is old enough and has done it enough times, he is ok to do it by himself, but Miss E is still little green. Well the whole way down the aisle, she kept repeating "Momma, I wanna do it myself!!" By the time we got to the alter to light the candles, (another disaster waiting to happen since there is all kinds of decorative fire hazards on the alter) she was very upset I wouldn't let go of the candle and let her do it herself.I told her I had to help her so we wouldn't knock anything over.

So in front of the whole congregation my sweet, beautiful daughter threw herself on the floor in front of the alter in a fit of impatience. I did the only thing I could do, I snuffed the device with the flame on the end out, turned to the congregation and shrugged to them with a grin as they giggled, and picked up my little drama queen and carried her back down the aisle. The trip down to snuff the candles on the alter out and carry the light out was much less dramatic.

Then during the children's sermon the leader asked the children if any of their parents say "Hurry up, we're going to be late!" My son looked at me with a smirk and I sent a prayer up that he wouldn't say anything to embarrass his mother any further. He does have great one liners that seem to come out during children's sermon. He turned back to the leader and said "Yes she does but not in a loud voice." The leader laughed and said "Well she has a lot of patience" which caused more giggles from the congregation.

So there was my exciting time at church yesterday. I have to say, although my kids stretch me at times. I wouldn't trade them for anything in the world. And this will make a great story when my daughter starts to date, and I can say "Remember the time you threw yourself in front of the alter at church???"

Thankful Thursday

2011-12-01T19:43:00.001-06:00

On this first day of December I'm so thankful for many things..

Grilled cheese sandwiches after a night of working late..

A playful black kitten that keeps us all entertained, especially when trying to climb our Christmas tree...

Crawling into bed after a long day..

An unexpected gift from my hubby, another cross to hang on my wall...

and finally, listening to a few Christmas songs to get me in the spirit!!

Wordless Wednesday

2011-11-30T18:55:00.001-06:00

First tooth lost!!! Such a big boy!!

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Christmas Season

2011-11-29T19:49:00.001-06:00

Well it is so hard to believe but the Christmas season is here! It is knocking on the door, it is peeking around the corner. I can't believe 2011 is drawing to a close. The year has flown by.

I have read several different articles and blog posts about being present during this holiday season. I've felt lately that something is trying to drag me away from my family by pressing darkness around me. And I don't like it. So during this Christmas season I think I'll focus on the light to keep the darkness at bay. I'll focus on the light of the Christmas star, of the twinkling lights that remind me of Christmas' past, the light and warmth of our Lord and Savior.

I'll focus on the light from the candles lit during candlelight service at our church, the songs from my daughters lips as she sings songs she learned at school, the unexpected hug from my son, the laugh of my husband. Yes all these things surround me with the kind of light that can help me fight the darkness. But the one that shines the brightest is the one that comes from my Abba, my Father, my Lord.

Wishing you warmth and light this holiday season!!

Thanksgiving Blessings

2011-11-26T12:30:00.001-06:00

As I went around the house yesterday cleaning up toys and vacuuming and putting things up for what seemed like the 100th time, a thought occurred to me.

I am blessed to have toys to pick up because that means I have children that have made my life joyful. My heart aches for women who want children more than anything in the world, and are unable for whatever reason to have them.

I am blessed to have laundry to do because that means that my family has clothes to wear and keep us warm.

I am blessed to have floors to clean and shelves to dust because this means that I have a home to shelter me and keep our family safe from the elements and to build a haven for our family.

I am blessed to have dishes to clean because this means that my family has food to eat and gather around a table to talk about our day and laugh.

So Lord, help me to remember as I clean to not grumble about the dishes I have to do, the laundry that needs to be folded, or the sticky floors that need to be cleaned. Because you have blessed my family. But also help to remember when to not worry about cleaning, and having a picked up home when my husband or children need a compassionate ear, a loving touch, or to just sit and build memories.

Friday Favorites

2011-11-25T20:13:00.000-06:00

Although I'm thankful for many things this Thanksgiving, my family, my husband, my friends, my job, our home...the list could go on. But today I received the pictures that a woman in town took. All of the family pictures that are below were taken by Tracy Cox. She did a wonderful job and I absolutely love each and every one!!

Seven Years Ago Today

2011-11-20T18:18:00.000-06:00

Seven years ago today I gave birth to my firsborn. This eight pound 1 oz baby boy came into this world amid some excitement. Not only did he feel stubborn and didn't want to come out, he also arrived during one of the worst thunderstorms of the year. Even though he was born in a very exciting way. He's the most laid back, easygoing, smartest, loving kid I've ever met. God blessed me with a wonderful son that I love very much. Today we had a very low key day. We got up and hung out at the house, and we had just family over to celebrate Mr. L's birthday. The first picture is of Mr. L at his class Friday when we took some snacks to celebrate his birthday. His teacher allows the kids to stand on their desks while the other kids sing happy birthday. I got to go and hand out the snacks, and take pictures while they sang. I'm so grateful my job allows me to be close to my kids. I'm so thankful for my handsome son, who brings me more joy than he'll ever know.

Thankful Thursday

2011-11-17T21:10:00.001-06:00

Two of my favorite people in the whole world..

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Attitude

2011-11-10T16:28:00.000-06:00

Lord,
I want my attitude to be one of love for you. I want to wake up and see the world anew each day.I don't want to get down about the bad things I see in this world or the negative forces that try to pull me down. I want to be able to see each day for what it is..a gift from You.

A gift to open my eyes and see the beauty in the fall leaves changing colors.

A gift to hear my children giggling at a funny comment I made.

A gift to hear my husband work with our son on his homework. (Makes me LOVE him even MORE)

A gift to have a fire in the fireplace this chilly fall night.

A gift to have a job I love that I am constantly learning at.

A gift to spend a morning with the just the Lord, a cup of coffee, and a blanket.

There are too many gifts to name Lord, but I am so glad you provide them all for me.

Love,
Harmony

Wordless Wednesday

2011-11-09T21:19:00.002-06:00

My Favorite Boy got glasses today. He looks so handsome!!!

In Response to How Are You Really???

2011-11-07T10:13:00.003-06:00

This morning as I was reading a devotional, I had aninsight. I was reading an article from (in)courage website that was entitled “How are You,Really?” and hit home. It was about a woman who asked her friend “How areyou, really?” and the friend let it all go. As I sat there reading it, not onlydid I long to be able to be able to do that with someone as well as forsomeone. But then I started thinking about my life and wondering, How I doing,really? To be honest with myself, I’m overwhelmed and tired, and long forsomething to connect me to my life.

Don’t get me wrong, I love my husband and kids I wouldn’ttrade them for the world. But the only time I feel completely at peace is whenI immerse myself in the Lord’s word. I strive to be so many things, a wife, amother, a daughter, a sister, an employee, a student…the list could go on fromthere. But as I sit daily asking for Godto make me better in those areas, I had a light bulb moment. Or maybe it was anangel knocking me in the head.

I don’t need to strive in these areas any longer. If Ifollow God and His word, His teachings, and listen to His will, then He willmake me better in those areas. We cannotdo things by our own will, they have to come through God.

Isaiah 41:10

“ So do not fear, for I am with you;
do not be dismayed, for I am your God.
I will strengthen you and help you;
I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.”

Exodus 15:2

“The LORD is my strength and my defense;
he has become my salvation.
He is my God, and I will praise him,
my father’s God, and I will exalt him.”

So from now on, instead of asking daily to make me better inthe different areas of my life, I will ask the Lord to create me to be thewoman that He wants me to be. As I grow into this woman, all these otheraspects in my life will fall into place. By being with the Lord, and walkingwith Him, I will be better in these other facets of my life. There is no needfor me to strive or agonize over how I feel I’m not measuring up. Only throughthe Lord, our God, can make me into the woman he has intended me to be.

Proverbs 31 Woman Was Onto Something..

2011-11-06T07:50:00.000-06:00

I understand now why the Proverbs 31 woman rose early to prepare for the day and spend time with the Lord. I woke up early this morning and since the kids were already up, I took my Bible and coffee onto the front porch. I sat with my devotionals ad bible in the coolness of the morning. I heard the wind softly blow through the trees, the doves talk to each other, and our kitties on the front porch purr in contentment. Very few cars were driving down our street so it was just nature and me.

As I sat there feeling close to the Lord and all that He created, several things pressed up my heart to pray for:

Lord, I ask that you make me fruitful today, to get done what needs to be done, to "roll up my sleeves, eager to get started" in the day. Yesterday was my day of rest, nap and all, so now today is time to get some things done. Lord I ask that you be with me through the week at work and at home to make choices that are in line with your Word.Lord I ask for your guidance and favor to be with my husband. Lead him Lord, and help him to grow into the man you have made him to be. Promote him as you see fit, Lord, for you have made us all to succeed.

Lord, I ask for your guidance in making our home a haven, a sanctuary, a place where we love to be. Lord, help me to learn to crave you, and not food or possessions or anything else but you. Yes, I completely understand why the Proverbs 31 rose early to prepare for her day. Because time alone with the Lord is the only way to strengthen you for the day.

Have a wonderful week!!

Awwww relaxation...

2011-11-05T14:32:00.001-05:00

Even though I have homework due today and tomorrow that I am working on, I have to say this has been a relaxing weekend so far. Last night my mom came over to watch the kids while Damon and I went to the country club to have pizza and drinks with some friends for a friend's birthday. We are such an old married couple, we were home before 9 but had a blast while we were there.

Then today we slept in, (well as much as you can with two kids saying Momma...Momma) and then I went to the grocery store and came home. Then I took a nap and now it's time to get back to homework. Tomorrow it's church, and that's all we have planned. This is the first weekend in months that we don't have SOMETHING planned to do and I have to say it's been pretty nice so far.

I think these weekends should be the rule, not the exception, and I know with the holidays coming up it's going to get harder not to have something going on every weekend. But I'd like to try to only have one thing scheduled during a weekend, or nothing at all to allow us as a family to decompress and relax instead of going...going...going. Like right now, the kids are playing in the backyard and I'm sitting inside with a purring kitten next to me. Life is going along pretty good right now.

Link to Women Living Well

2011-11-03T08:07:00.005-05:00

I follow this blog and because she can say it more eloquently than I can about what I feel about blogging, I'm just going to link up to her http://goo.gl/gkxbh. Here's to glorifying God with Blogging...

An Awesome Mom

2011-11-01T09:54:00.005-05:00

I receive this email in my inbox and thought I would share it with you..

You are an Awesome Mom
Colleen O'Grady
"I want you to know I am proud of you and you are an awesome mom."
Wouldn't it be great if someone told you that every day? How would you feel if you really believed it?
"You are an awesome mom!"
It feels good doesn't it?
I have listened to moms for over 20 years and I have never heard a mom say, "I am a great mom and I am really proud of myself."
I hear Moms say, "no one appreciates me or all I do for my family."
Your husband or kids may answer back, "Yes I do," but you don't believe them because they have no idea how much you do. And for sure they don't know what's in your heart, and how much you worry and pray for your kids.
But if a friend says, "You are a great mom," what do you do with that? Can you receive the compliment and believe it. Most mothers slough it off when it is given. You think, "She has no idea".
Why is that?
I don't think you appreciate yourself and all you do.
Deep down you think you're not doing a good job. Being a mother is hard. It's easy to doubt your decisions around parenting. And you have an unrealistic job description placed on you by the culture.
Mother's are supposed to be perfect. Right?
We are supposed to have perfect children, perfect house, perfect spouse, and have a perfect body.
Perfect is not happening! You can't be perfect in all these areas at the same time. Believe me we all try. You wear yourself out running here and there, morning to night and at the end of the day you are convinced you are the biggest loser. And not in the good (Biggest Losers TV show) way.
The message "A great mom is a perfect mom" you inherited from the culture. I call this a Powerless Parenting Message. Because when you believe this you feel powerless and are totally set up to feel like a failure.
You may have had a good day with your daughter, your house is clean, but if you've gained 2 pounds and your whole day is ruined.
This message robs you of ever celebrating what you do accomplish. Having a good day with your daughter and a partially clean house is worth celebrating.
Now this gets amplified if you have a hot headed adolescent daughter who is not getting her way. Your daughter is skilled with psychological weapons and knows how to shoot her arrow into your vulnerability.
She speaks out your worst fear. "You are a terrible mother."
This can knock the wind out of you. You feel like you're the witch in the wizard of oz. Your daughter has just thrown a bucket of water on you and all you can say is, "I'm melting".
Your power and confidence will melt when you believe her words. Combine this with wanting to be the perfect mother, and you will shrink and disappear into the black hole of Mother Shame.
The truth is you are usually doing your job when those comments fly at you. My guess is you just told your daughter, "No, you can't stay out till 2am." "No, you can't spend the night at your boyfriend's house." "No, you can't get a tattoo of your boyfriend's name on your chest."
You are doing a great job when you set a boundary with your daughter. Just know when your daughter says "You are a terrible mother," it really means "I am angry at you because you are not giving me what I want".
A Great Mom does not equal a perfect mom.
A Great Mom does not equal pleasing everyone at all times.
We need a new definition of a Great Mom.
1. Accepts her imperfections.
A Great Mom...

Knows the goal is not to be perfect.
Is kind to herself and therefore can be kind to others.
Is self aware and knows where she has crossed the line.
Admits her mistakes and says she is sorry.
Doesn't give up and wants to grow.

2. Strives to do her best.

Focuses on learning from her mistakes.
Wants to improve herself and her parenting.
Willing to change when things aren't working.
Is teachable and open to learning new approaches.
Keeps trying and starts again.

3. Knows her limitations and receives help.

Knows she needs to take care of herself which means getting enough physical and emotional rest.
Takes time to enjoy her life and her daughter.
Knows there is way too much and she needs help.
Receives help and builds a team of support around her and her daughter.
Leans on God and prayer for help.

4. Accepts her kids imperfections

Knows the goal for her kids is not perfection but healthy striving.
Has hope for her kids and encourages them.
Knows they can learn from their mistakes and take responsibility and develop empathy.
Shows her kids by example how to strive for the best and learn from your mistakes.

5. Remembers the important things

Loves her kids and remembers they are a gift.
Remembers it's not going to be perfect 24/7.
Aware of opportunities to hang out and enjoy her kids.
Teaches them compassion and forgiveness.
Sets boundaries and give consequences without shame.
Sees the God given potential in her children.

Believe this new definition.
You are an awesome mom!

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Weekend Wrap Up

2011-10-30T22:04:00.000-05:00

This weekend was so much fun.

Friday night we didn't have to do anything..nada...did I mention nothing?? So we came home after school, made dinner, and spent some time at the house. I was in my pajamas at 8pm and I was so loving it. It was character dress up day at school and Mr Lwent as a Navy Seal. Here we are at the Pep Rally at school.

Saturday we woke up and took the boat to the mechanic. We stopped at a park and had a picnic. Went and saw Puss in Boots at the movie theater. Which I would recommend getting their early enough where your not wondering around a dark theater. We almost set in someone's lap. Whoops!! It was a really cute movie and we really enjoyed it. Here is a picture of Mr. L and Miss E playing at the park.

We then drove to a nearby town where they have a business that has giant blow up slides, obstacle courses and giant blow up trampoline. The kids had an absolute blast!! As did someone else I know...

Yes, Damon had a blast as well. We had a great day spent with the family.

Then today we all went to a church as a family. We were joined by my bro-in-law, sis-in-law, her daughter, and grandson. It was so nice to have everyone there. We also had a special treat, a wonderful woman who recently moved to our town played the harp during the service. I've never heard a harp in real life, and it was absolutely beautiful. The message was wonderful and then we had a fellowship dinner afterward. All in all I had a wonderful weekend.

Thankful Thursday

2011-10-27T22:00:00.000-05:00

Today on a Thursday I'm thankful for...

This cold, rainy weather that makes potato soup and grilled cheese sooo good.

The good word of the Lord that knows exactly what I need to get me through the day.

A new Shape magazine in the mailbox...that's always a nice surprise

My hubby who is very resourceful and was able to make dog tags for Mr. L's Halloween costume and buy a pair of camo pants for three dollars. He's pretty handy to have around.

A mentor and friend that I can go to and tell her about anything going on in my life and she can give me good, solid advice.

For Granted

2011-10-25T16:44:00.001-05:00

For Granted

I cry out for someoneto save me

This world has beatme down again with

Its negativity,hatred, apathy, and sorrow

But I come to therealization as I wipe away my tears

That I have taken myblessings for granted

This body you game meLord

I’ve mistreated bylack of sleep by being too busy to

Take care of thisgift of life.

I’ve taken theblessing of my husband for granted by

Not giving my timeand love to him.

I’ve taken the blessingof my children for granted by

Not enjoying thesespecial years while they are young.

Lord, I confess myapathy and selfishness has blocked

My sight to see theblessings you have graciously given to me.

Lord forgive me forthis, and help to walk each day

Renewed by your loveand peace

Give me your sight tosee the people around me hurting

So I can wrap my armsaround them

Let my eyes see theblessings that You have poured out on me.

Lord, I ask for yourlove to be shown to others through me.

Saturday fun

2011-10-22T11:07:00.001-05:00

This morning was soo much fun!!

Mr L's team scored their first two goals of the soccer season!!! It was so much fun & so exciting. The kids were ecstatic!! It was a blessing to be there.

Today we have a full day. Mr L will be going to a nursing home with scouts today to help build crafts & decorations. Then hubby & I are going to a wedding of a friend's daughter. I can't wait to see friends this evening & have fun!!!

Tomorrow is church, a shower for my cousin, and a book study with a women's group. Oh and hope the Dallas cowboys win some football!!!

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A slower, small town pace...

2011-10-21T08:15:00.000-05:00

It’s been a busy…busy…busy week…

I was reminded this week that my family and I need toSLOOOOWWW things down. With school for the kids, my masters program for me,sports, boy scouts, cleaning, cooking, and the ever list of things to do, Ibelieve we are BURNED OUT!!!

So this momma has taken matters into her own hands. Well, Iwouldn’t necessarily say that, how about I’m putting some things into someone’shands that can actually do something with them. I’m giving it over to God andwe shall see what he can do with our schedule.

The last two nights we’ve had little to do. We went and ate withmy family for my mom’s birthday and played board games. Then last night thekids helped out around the house while my hubby did “honey do’s” and then thekids played outside while I finished dinner. It was amazing to have everythingdone by 8pm and be sitting down in my chair. I was almost speechless.

I downloaded a book and I’m reading it for ways to slow myfamily down where we aren’t quiet so fast paced. It’s called NotSo Fast by Ann Kroeker and has some wonderful ideas in it that I wouldrecommend to any family. One thing she points out is that are lives are notdefined by our “to-do lists.” Our lives are not the sum of anything that we canaccomplish in a given amount of time. One thing that is pointed out in the bookis that we tend to put more on our plate that we think we can do. I know I tendto do it!! So they mentioned to imagine your day as a beautiful plate, anddivide it into three sections that you want. Three things that will help theday go more smoothly and get things together for your family.

I hope to let people know about the progress of this littleexperiment. I’m hoping it will help our family come closer together as well asbring us closer to God.

Sitting with my Father

2011-10-16T07:43:00.001-05:00

I wake up and see that the sun hasn't yet broken the night completely
The moon and a star are gracefully singing their swan song in the sky
The lake is as smooth and serene as a picture hanging in a loving home
The birds call out to each other in a melody designed by God himself.
I sit by this beauty you have designed Lord and I am filled with wonder
That you designed this all with your loving hands for us to enjoy.
I read your words that you poured out to us and say my prayers
Asking for my Daddy to heal the hurts of those around me.
I sit in my Father's lap and pour out my troubles to him as He
Listens with a loving ear and a warm heart.
I end by singing a song that has pressed itself on my heart
About going down to the river to pray studying the good old way
Oh Lord how I wish I could wear the robe and crown, please
My Father, my Daddy, show me the ways to walk in your steps
To see those around me as you see them, as beloved children of you.

- just a small town girl on the go

Wordless Wednesday

2011-10-12T11:09:00.001-05:00

Sick kiddo at home playing on iPad

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Terrific Tuesday

2011-10-11T21:11:00.002-05:00

Today has been a terrific Tuesday. I got several things done at work, and received a gift certificate to a local restaurant from a co-worker as a thank you that will allow me not to cook tonight after a soccer game. ;)

I got a power nap at lunch and I have so much more energy this afternoon.

We received nearly 5 inches of rain this weekend that was much needed in our drought-ridden area. The Lord is SO GOOD!! Also fall has popped it's head up here, so it's been cooler in the mornings and I love it. Mr. L's soccer team played a good, exciting game and then we went out and have Italian for dinner. Yummy!!

It's been a good Tuesday!!

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Queens

2011-10-10T21:07:00.001-05:00

This weekend I was blessed to go to a retreat with several wonderful ladies. After feeling the Holy Spirit in that place this weekend and being released of several things that were holding me back, I spent time with several other women from my hometown. As we sat sharing several things about our lives, our worries, just everything, inspiration hit me. Or should I say the Holy Spirit hit me. I've always wanted to be a writer, ever since I was young. I've written stories and poems for people I know but never really shared it with anyone. Last night I came back to my room and I had words rattling around my head. I grabbed a notebook and a pencil and wrote the following:

Queens

Lord, we confess we’ve hung on sotightly to things that are familiar

We’ve gripped tem to our chest likea child with a favorite toy

That they know will be taken away

But the things that we’ve hung ontocan cause us so much pain, Lord.

We’ve hung onto our fear of anunknown we can’t name

We’ve clung to the unwillingness toallow a growing child to spread their wings

We’ve tightened our hear around afear that your blessings could be snatched away

We confess that we harbor angertowards you for loved ones that you took home

Before we could fully understand why

But Lord we can let all that go…

For you know our days and nights andhave a plan for each of us

You have given us a special gift ofa child that we have to release to you

So they can blossom with your love

We need to let go and accept yourblessings and know you have great things in store for us

We let go of our anger, because ourloves ones are with you Lord

And although we can’t hold them now,we know you had planned their days long ago.

And we will dance and sing with themagain one day, Lord.

We let go of all these things Lord,we release them from our hands and our hearts

Thank you God for loving us so muchto send your son to die for our sins

Thank you God for giving us yourguidance as we travel along this road as sisters, mothers, daughters, as

Queens

On the Kitchen Floor

2011-10-02T08:48:00.001-05:00

My sweet, lovely daughter woke up at 7am this morning. Ick!!! Although I should be grateful for small blessings because yesterday she was up at 5:30 am. The one problem, ok there are many issues with my child waking up so early on the weekend, but we'll bypass those, is that I usually like to have time to myself in the mornings.

Just me & the Lord, that's what I need to keep my head screwed on straight. So since Miss Priss derailed that plan I hid in the kitchen, on the floor to have my devotional time. After reading my devotionals I picked up a book "What Women Fear" by Angie Smith. The (in)courage will be having a book club online about the book.

I have to say I received it on Friday and I am already half way through it. It is a wonderful book that helps women with their fears and faith in God. One thing that struck me during the book was the story of Hagar is banished by Abraham. The scripture Genesis 21:19 states that "then God opened her eyes & she saw the well of water." the author, Angie Smith points out that Hagar's circumstances didn't change, but her awareness did. That means that sometimes we get so blinded by the worst possible scenario, we don't see the blessings that are right in front of us.

What a revelation!!! I had to look it up in my own bible just to be sure. What if I change my awareness to include all the blessings that God has placed before me, and not be blinded by the what-ifs, and the worst cases. That's what I'm going to strive for.

- just a small town girl on the go

Just two dollars..

2011-09-29T23:04:00.000-05:00

This week we are a little "financially challenged" as I told my husband. Between a dentist office visit out of town and some unexpected bills, I didn't even have two dollars to pay for "hat day" at Mr. L's school. You would get to wear a hat if you brought $1 to go towards a charity to benefit kids with cancer. I was going to give them two dollars, one for me and one for Mr. L. I prayed to God to just help me get two dollars to give at school.

The next morning I was getting ready and reached my hand into my laundered jeans pocket. There in the pocket was $2. What funny things God does sometimes!!!

Wordless Wednesday

2011-09-28T19:51:00.001-05:00

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What to know...

2011-09-25T17:53:00.001-05:00

I wrote this for a friend's baby shower today..

Some things to know….

You’ve never known love till you see that baby smile…

You’ve never seen heaven on earth to you see that baby for the first time...

Your world becomes larger and smaller at the same time as you try to protect your baby from everything in the world…

Your baby’s laugh will be more beautiful than any song you’ve ever heard…

You’ll run on adrenaline, caffeine, and love the first few years, because the Lord knows you don’t sleep…

Get down on your knees and pray, often, you can’t do it all without the help of the good Lord above…

You will have a whole new respect and empathy for the woman trying to corral her kids at the supermarket…you will be her one day…

Always remember that you are a woman and not only a mother…nurture that part of your soul…

Start each day with prayers and the Bible…it will restore your soul and prepare you for the days ahead…

Always remember that they will not be young forever, cherish each day that the Lord gives you, and love the moment of life you are in…

Have fun with your children, laugh much and often, and your home can be a haven.

“Love is patient…Love is kind” 1 Corinthians 13:4

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Amazing

2011-09-24T09:28:00.001-05:00

Sometimes I feel as though I'm on a roller coaster & no one stops it to let me off.

Anyone knows that times are getting tough with costs on everything going up & pay is not going up with it. But just when I think I'm going to throw myself on the floor & cry, the good Lord comes through.

He comes through with an unexpected gift..

He comes through with good news on a friend's surgery...

He comes through with a giggle from my Kids to remind me of the joys of this life..

He's teaching me so much, & sometimes I have to stop & breathe in order to catch it all.

This life is too short. I choose to be positive & choose joy, & choose my Lord.

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Wordless Wednesday

2011-09-21T21:29:00.001-05:00

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Marvelous Monday

2011-09-19T22:54:00.002-05:00

It's been a marvelous Monday..

I got up early and went to the gym and worked out..

I had a good Monday including a funny email fist thing from my dear cousin...

Got to hold a beautiful baby boy today. One of my best friends had a baby that's a little over a week old. and I went over to see all of them. But I mainly just went to hold the baby :)

We had a busy day running here and there and had a blast doing it, but I can't imagine it doing it on my own. I'm so lucky to have a great hubby who helps me out.

After dinner I put Miss E down and read her five little monkeys jumping on a bed. She loved and laughed at me doing the voices of the momma and the doctor.Then she read it to me..it was so sweet.

I then walk past my son's room and my hubby is reading a story to my son.

I am so blessed right now. My life is pretty perfect...

Happy Birthday Daddy

2011-09-18T08:42:00.002-05:00

Today my father would have been 53 years old. I often wonder what he would look like today. When I was 17 he passed away from a heart attack.

I would have loved to have listened to that silly laugh of his as he played with his grandkids.

I would have loved to sit around the table as he told embarrassing stories on me to my husband and kids.

I would have loved to have him pull me in his arms and tell me how proud he was of me when I graduated college.

I would have loved to have had him walk me down the aisle at my wedding.

I would have loved to see his face when he first laid eyes on his grandchildren.

I would have loved to see him and my mother grow old together.

I would have loved to learn more from him as I grew older.

I loved that he blessed me with so many good memories.

I loved staying up way past my bed time when younger to listen to records of different kinds of music with my father.

I loved eating his great buttersauce and his cooking that was great....most of the time. :)

I loved how he was so proud of me.

I love his loud, crazy, loving family he brought me into, and all that they do for me and teach me.

Thank you for all that you did for me Daddy. I know you're watching over us now and you're hanging out with all the great musicians you used to listen to in heaven.

Wordless wednesday

2011-09-14T21:40:00.000-05:00

Grandparents day lunch

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Busy, busy, busy

2011-09-13T19:42:00.001-05:00

I've heard other moms talking about how busy it gets when your kids are in school, well I believe it now!!

Mr L is in Tiger scouts, soccer, it's homecoming week, & homework, Oh my!!

Miss E has started pre-k and is learning at a rate so fast it's scary! She was so proud because she learned how to spell her name.

Plus housework, laundry, cooking & my homework. But I'm blessed to have laundry to do because I have clothes to wear, a home to clean, food to eat. ;)

- just a small town girl on the go

Marvelous Monday

2011-09-12T21:32:00.001-05:00

I'm going to say it was a Marvelous Monday...but it was a trying, tiring one at that. I'm going to keep a positive attitude although, this day has caused a lot of self reflection on my part.

1) Woke up late - which put all of us late. But it made me realize I need to re-evaluate things once again and try to get more done in the evenings.

2) It was a crazy Monday at work, but I kept a smile on my face and did my work.

3) I didn't really feel like it, but went to the gym and ran/walked 3 miles since I officially started training for a half marathon in 21 weeks. I felt like I had accomplished something when I walked out of there.

4) Crock pot roast turned out ok, but not as good as I would like it, so next time I need to do something differently, or get a different cut of meat.

5) Got some of my textbook read while sitting in a chair with my favorite girl.

6) Both kids in bed at a remotely decent hour.

7) Realized that I need to focus more on my family and my home, because besides the good Lord above, those are the most important things in my life, and I need to make sure I treat them that way.

8) Need to take time in the morning to have time with the Lord, because it helps me stay centered.

Well I better go so I can get some rest and do some homework...

Forgivess

2011-09-11T16:41:00.002-05:00

Today during church our Pastor gave a sermon on forgiveness and especially what it meant on today, the tenth anniversary of September 11th. The scripture was the parable of the Unforgiving Servant.

Matt 18:23-35 Therefore the Kingdom of Heaven is like a certain king, who wanted to reconcile accounts with his servants. When he had begun to reconcile, one was brought to him who owed him ten thousand talents. But because he couldn’t pay, his lord commanded him to be sold, with his wife, his children, and all that he had, and payment to be made. The servant therefore fell down and kneeled before him, saying, ‘Lord, have patience with me, and I will repay you all!’ The lord of that servant, being moved with compassion, released him, and forgave him the debt. "But that servant went out, and found one of his fellow servants, who owed him one hundred denarii, and he grabbed him, and took him by the throat, saying, ‘Pay me what you owe!’ "So his fellow servant fell down at his feet and begged him, saying, ‘Have patience with me, and I will repay you!’ He would not, but went and cast him into prison, until he should pay back that which was due. So when his fellow servants saw what was done, they were exceedingly sorry, and came and told to their lord all that was done. Then his lord called him in, and said to him, ‘You wicked servant! I forgave you all that debt, because you begged me. Shouldn’t you also have had mercy on your fellow servant, even as I had mercy on you?’ His lord was angry, and delivered him to the tormentors, until he should pay all that was due to him. So my heavenly Father will also do to you, if you don’t each forgive your brother from your hearts for his misdeeds."

When I got home I started thinking...is there any unforgiveness in my life I need to let go, or need to let go of one more time? Some forgiveness is harder to give than others.

Forgive a person for saying something mean to me....they may have been having a bad day or had other problems in their life.

Forgive my husband for something he said that cut me deep, he was frustrated over something at work and lashed out. He apologized later and explained why he was so short.

Forgive my father for leaving so early in my life. I was only 17 when the good Lord took him home, and it took me a long time to let go of the anger I had about the whole situation
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I once heard that forgiveness is not about the other person, it's about the person that is forgiving. Hanging onto hurt, anger, and despair can only poison yourself and your relationships. So on September 11th I ask that everyone that needs to forgive will to allow healing into their hearts.

Wordless Wednesday

2011-09-07T09:28:00.001-05:00

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They grow up too fast!!

2011-09-06T15:08:00.001-05:00

Today was my baby girl's first day of pre-k. Where does the time go?!?!

I can't believe that she is old enough to be in pre-k.

My two precious blessings. Today was a not so subtle reminder to slow down & count each moment, before they slip through my fingers.

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Thankful Thursday

2011-09-01T14:48:00.001-05:00

What I'm thankful for on this thursday...

5. Singing "This Is the Stuff" by Fransesca Batistilli on my way to work this morning.

4. A spiritual momma who knows just what to say to help me through some rough times.

3. Great friends

2. My job where I work with great people & be near my kids

1. The Lord up above who is stretching & molding me to be who He wants me to be.

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Devotional

2011-08-31T19:37:00.001-05:00

If you can read it this was my devotional earlier in the week. It's amazing how God will give me encouragement when I need it.

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Fabulous Friday

2011-08-26T17:32:00.000-05:00

Well it's been a fast paced week!!

Wednesday not only was the first day of school for my new first grader, we took our daughter to open house at the pre-k she will start in another week. (Allow momma a moment to sniffle and wonder where the time has gone???) Since then we've tried to perfect bed times, waking up earlier, and getting places on time. So far we've mastered none at this time.

Right now I'm listening to two little boys and one big kid (aka my Husband) play video games. It's kind of fun to see how excited the boys get at the game. Landon's got a friend over that's spending the night.

Well I better go because I gotta work the gate at the football game tonight, then tomorrow I'm taking Landon and his friend out to get a uniform for scouts, and then hopefully not much after that but some good family time before my classes start again on Monday.

Have a great weekend, and God Bless!!

First day of first grade

2011-08-24T12:35:00.001-05:00

My big first grader!!!

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Thankful for the rain

2011-08-13T10:41:00.001-05:00

Rainstorms are God's songs
With the soft pitter-patter of the first drops
To the sound of the wall of water as it rolls in
With the bass of the thunder.

The melodies of the birds as they play in the rain
The snare of the rain hitting the tin roof
The harmonies of the wind
And the sound of the cars splashing through the puddles

What a beautiful sound God has created
A song no one can equal
As prayers are answered
And life renews

- just a small town girl on the go

Wordless Wednesday

2011-08-10T18:34:00.001-05:00

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One Life to Love

2011-08-08T19:43:00.000-05:00

I think this song is an older song by 33miles a Christian band, but I discovered it today and fell in love. It' been on repeat since I downloaded it onto my phone.

One Life To Love

He never thought he cared so much about the minute hand
Until he started praying for, a second chance
If he could only do it all again
He'd trade the long nights that he spent behind his desk
For all he missed

He tells his wife "I wish that this moment in this room was not me dying, but just spending a little time with you."

You only get just one time around
You only get one shot at this
One chance, to find out
The one thing that you don't wanna miss
One day when it's all said and done
I hope you see that it was enough, this
One ride, one try, one life...
To love....

She never thought she cared so much about those little hands
That held on tight the day she left
Til she was scared to death
Sitting all alone on a hotel bed, the end of the road
The sun had set on her big plans
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To feel young again

She picks up the phone, dials the number, hears that little voice
That's haunted every single mile, since she made that choice

You only get just one time around
You only get one shot at this
One chance, to find out
The one thing that you don't wanna miss
One day when it's all said and done
I hope you see that it was enough, this
One ride, one try, one life...
To love............

You only get just one time around
Only get one shot at this
One chance, to find out
The one thing that you don't wanna miss
One day when it's all said and done
I hope you see that it was enough, this
One ride, one try, one life........
One ride, one try, one life........
To love....
To love....
mmmmmm......

What a song to remind you how short this life is and how each moment is precious...

Oh Summer Where Have you Gone?!?

2011-08-04T18:33:00.001-05:00

I can't believe in a few weeks the kids will be starting school!! It's just crazy how fast this summer has flown by. Can we start over?!? I've been MIA from the blogging world because my two classes, kids, hubby, and house has taken over my life. But hope to be back now... Here are just a few photo reminders of our summer.. We've had a blast!!

Father's day road trip to see my father & Damon's dad burial sites

Playing at the lake memorial day weekend

Just me

My grandmother's 80th Birthday - 4 generations of women (plus Landon)

Me & the sis-in-law after playing on the lake

Matching pedicures Mommy & Daughter

Miss Thing Ready for the Lake Trip

My Beautiful Girl

Rocking the Summer Mohawk

Just hanging out at the park

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Weekend wrapup

2011-07-24T17:54:00.001-05:00

This weekend we went camping with my in-laws & our kids. We went tubing behind the boat, swimming, boating & fishing, going down a huge downhill waterslide & hanging out with the family.

Me & the Sis-in-law after a day on the lake

My little man playing at the playground

Miss E & our nephew Playing

Our sunset view

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Time flies

2011-07-19T23:08:00.001-05:00

I was thinking today that time is flying by. My dear son is growing & learning. I still remember him asking his daddy to "fick" (fix) it.

My dear daughter is growing by leaps & bounds. She used to say "you too" when I said "love you." now she says "love you too."

I'm gonna miss this stage, but cant wait to the next stage.

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It's HOT HERE!!

2011-07-14T18:14:00.000-05:00

Oh my goodness, when my car thermometer reads 107 I know it's HOT here!!

Mainly we've been staying indoors and the only time we go out for any length of time is to play in the sprinkler or go to the pool. I've been inside studying and the kids have been playing Angry Birds, watching movies, playing with friends and toys.

I have to say that our family has been truly blessed this summer to have fun with each other and our friends. I thank the Lord for the people He's put into our lives.

That's all I have for now, stay cool!!

Wordless Wednesday

2011-07-12T23:28:00.001-05:00

These are two of my best friends. We have been friends since grade school. They are both pregnant & due a month apart. I love this pic because it's probably the first one of us three since high school.

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Almost Wordless Wednesday

2011-07-06T15:22:00.000-05:00

This weekend I had the privilege of helping throw my grandmother's 80th birthday party. It was a resounding success and I loved visiting with family and friends. The fact that my grandmother is also so happy about it, makes me feel wonderful too. Here are some of my favorite pics.

Miss E and my grandmother playing the piano

Nanny meeting our cousin's adopted daughter Jolee for the first time

My Uncle Truett (Buck), Nanny, & my gorgeous Momma

Me, Nanny, and my younger brother Milton

This is what happens when you let Miss E have the camera

Four generations of our women..can you tell Miss E didn't want her pic taken??

Summer haircut

2011-07-04T15:52:00.001-05:00

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Coming home

2011-06-25T17:06:00.001-05:00

This week I was privileged to participate bringing a soldier home that was killed in action. I didn't know the young man, however, hundreds of people from our town lined the streets waving the american flags as he passed. It was an awe inspiring moment & made me very proud of my community.
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Father's day

2011-06-23T23:03:00.001-05:00

For Father's day we did something different & went & visited both of our fathers. My father passed away in 1998 & Damon's passed away 2 years ago. We had a great day with the family.

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Fabulous Friday

2011-06-17T13:31:00.000-05:00

Just a quick little blog post then I gotta get back to work.

I am cleaning house and doing homework on my Friday off. Kids are at the babysitters for the day so I can cram a bunch of stuff into one day in order to go play tonight. Yes, I kind of feel like a kid again, I have to get all my chores done so I can go play. :)

This week has flew by and it's been crazy, working, swimming with kiddos, having water balloon fights, fitting in laundry and trying to cram homework in as well. Speaking of, I better get back to if I want to go play tonight. We are taking the kids swimming again tonight and gonna hang out with some of our friends. Can't wait!!

Weekend wrap-up

2011-06-12T18:10:00.001-05:00

Time for the weekend wrap-up..

Friday I helped decorate for our VBS at church & then studied. That evening we had the house all to ourselves & went to bro-&-Sis in laws where the guys cooked us dinner while the girls set in the pool. It was a pretty good night.

Saturday we hung out at the house & took the kids swimming. It was a fun time. Playing in the water was a blast with the kiddos. Today we went to church & the message was great. Then my mom came over &
We addressed invites for my grandma's 80th bday party in a few weeks. A quick workout & some more studying & our weekend is winding down.

Prayers this week goes well ;)

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Good Times

2011-06-11T21:32:00.001-05:00

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Reading time

2011-06-09T22:08:00.001-05:00

Tonight we started reading before miss e went to bed. There's nothing like your little girl trying to read the book to you by just telling you what the pictures are.

I'd have to say this week has gone good. Spent our 8th anniversary at the country club with the kids, swimming, & hanging out with sis-&-bro in laws. It was a great time. :)

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Oh what a week

2011-06-03T21:13:00.001-05:00

I haven't written all week because Mr L was put in the hospital late Wednesday night. He was running a high fever & has some sort of bacterial infection. Thanks to many prayers my boy is out today. I'm so thankful for my family today.

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Makes it All Seem So Small

2011-06-01T16:10:00.000-05:00

Lord,
This weekend you called one of your young angels back home. A boy only a year older than my dear son was called home to be with you unexpectedly. I can't even imagine what his family feels right now. I do not know them, but the thought of losing your child rips my heart in two. Lord I pray for them during this time, I know they are searching for why, and their grief is immeasurable. Lord, wrap your arms around them and speak your words of healing into their heart. No words we speak can comfort them, but you know what to say to help them pick up the pieces of their hearts and start mending them back together.

This makes everything I worry about seem so small & trivial. Lord today I'll hug my kids a little more, kiss them,and tell them I love them just one more time. I'll read the story one more time, and listen more when they tell me a story. Lord I'll hold my husband's hand while sitting on the couch watching a movie, tell him I love him before hanging up the phone, I'll thank him for being a wonderful father. Call my mom and grandma and tell them I love them and thanks for all they did.

If you read this, please say a prayer for this family in our community.And hug those you love...one more time..

Some pics

2011-05-30T21:44:00.001-05:00

Do I look a little sunburned?? Because I am ;)

Mr L and his new friend

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Memorial day Weekend

2011-05-30T06:38:00.001-05:00

We left Friday to meet A big group of people at the lake. We had such a blast. Even the snake that was hanging around the water yesterday couldn't dampen our spirits. (we did get out of the water when we saw it)

I didn't get any pictures and barely touched my phone the whole weekend. I was busy having fun with my kids & friends. We ate like kings. Thanks to all the cooks!! Breakfast outside camping is just great!! We swam, played, played horseshoes, & the kids played with the other kids there.

We all got sunburned by me more than my family. We think the sunscreen we were using was old because I reapplied often and still got burned. Oh well had fun anyway, & it was great to get away & unplug!!

Praying for our men & women serving anywhere today, & all of those who fought for our freedom before.

- Just a small town girl on the go

Changing Monday

2011-05-23T06:38:00.000-05:00

Ok I have to admit, I haven't been so good on the diet thing in the past few weeks. With my finals for my master's classes and the end of the school year, yeah, healthy eating has bombed by the wayside. But after some soul searching on my part after realizing that my mild depression that creeps back up on me and makes me a witch to those I love (and an emotional trainwreck) I realized that I have to do something and not sit idle.

So I'm jumping back on the Reshaping It All train and will try to go through and keep you up to date on my progress. In one chapter of the book the authors state that you have to have a goal, but not only a goal but a way to achieve it, so here it is, for all the world to see.

1) What is the goal you hope to attain?

T a. To be healthy and skinny. I want to feel good, I want to throw off this devil called depression that constantly nips at my heels. One way to do that is to eat right and exercise. I want to have enough energy to do all the things that I have to do, work, chase after kids, clean house, spend time with my husband, and not crash the minute I sit down at night. I want to weigh 142 pounds and not get above 145. That seems to be a good place for me to be. I’ve come to discover you can’t eat the way I’m eating and lose weight. (Chocolate every night just doesn’t seem conducive to losing weight, darn it!!)

1) What do you hope to gain by reaching this goal?

a. I want to be healthy and have energy. That’s the main thing. Many nights I crash as soon as I get still in my recliner after work, kids, cooking, cleaning, kids in bed, mom in the chair…zzzzzz. I feel tired a lot of the time, and also I’ve come to notice that I get more irritable and snappish with my family if I don’t work out. I’ve come to find out that I feel better and don’t snap as much when I work out and eat right. It’s something I HAVE TO DO rather than taking pills to put me in a happier mood. I’m a busy girl, and I have to fuel myself properly or it won’t work.

2) What is the cost?

a. What to do to achieve my goal

i. Drink 6 glasses of water a day

ii. Drink sparkling water w/ fruit rather than soda

iii. Work out for an hour 3 times a week at minimum – get up in the mornings and workout if I know I can’t do it right after work

iv. Get enough sleep at night – at least 6.5 to 7 hours

v. Pack my own better alternatives to junk food to bring to work and on trips so I’m not tempted to snack on chips at work

vi. Pray!!

That’s my game plan. I have stuck to it once, unfortunately, it fell by the wayside when this crazy thing called life got really busy. I hope to blog about my journey with good news to report along the way.

Our week in Review

2011-05-20T08:32:00.001-05:00

Well another week has flow by. Mr. L has only six or seven more days of school & then he's in first grade. Where does the time go??

Miss E is registered for pre-k in the fall. I hope they are ready is all I have to say. :) I love my little girl, but she is definitely her own person.

We signed up our son to start tiger cub scouts in the fall, & my husband, who is an Eagle Scout is so excited!! I am too, I have to say.

We went to a great birthday party yesterday for some friends, & then hubby & I went & listened to some music. It was a great night out.

Well gotta go, the ironing for some reason won't get up & do itself. ;)

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My munchkins

2011-05-19T20:13:00.001-05:00

My two joys...my loves..they drive me crazy but I couldn't imagine my life without them.

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Weekend wrap up

2011-05-15T22:00:00.001-05:00

My hubby was in a fishing tournament this weekend. We stayed with some friends while he fished. Our friends invited their friends over & at one point there were 12 kids under the age of 15 there. ;) it was exciting, to say the least. Miss E made a new friend this weekend.

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Mother's Day

2011-05-07T23:30:00.000-05:00

We celebrated my mother's day today. Instead of making it all about me, I decided to do something with the whole family.

We went and saw Rio (cute, cute movie) and had a blast! I thought maybe it wouldn't be that crowded since it was a matinee and the movie had been out for awhile, but apparently everyone had the exact same thought we did. We wound up sitting in 3 seats with Miss E bouncing from hubby's lap to mine.

Then we took the kids to McDonald's and they played while me and the hubby ate and talked. Then a quick grocery run, and back home. The kiddos played in the sprinkler on the trampoline and of course Miss E HAD TO play in the mud.

Then this is the cross my husband made me to go on my "wall o' crosses" right now I have 23

May try to get in some more work for all my finals before I finally throw in the towel and call it a night.

Happy Mother's Day Ladies!!

Wordless Wednesday

2011-05-04T19:41:00.001-05:00

25 Things You Don't Know

2011-05-02T15:54:00.002-05:00

I saw this on another blog & thought it was pretty cute!!

25 things You Don't Know About Me

1) I was named after Elton John's song "Harmony" off the yellow Brick Road record

2) My father named me :)

3) I had a birthmark removed off my leg when I was five & they had to do a skin graft on my calf. People ask me all the time if it is a shark bite. (wouldn't that make an interesting story??)

4) I'm a worrier, but I'm trying to fix my problem

5) I only seriously dated two men in my life, & I married the second one!! My husband & I met when I was 19!

6) I was 217 when I gave birth to my first child nearly 7 years ago, and I've lost 70 pounds.

7) I love all kinds of music, give me classic rock, blues, classical, praise & worship country, pop, it depends on my mood as to what's on my iPod.

8) I've had two pet raccoons (redneck, yes, I know)

9) I fell into my line of work in technology. A friend of my grandmother offered me a job at his Internet service provider business - and the rest is history

10) I have many new & old friends, but there are three girls that I grew up with that when we get together, it's like no time has passed since we saw each other, we can just pick back up where we left off

11) seafood (especially shrimp & crawfish) is my weakness...oh & pasta...& dark chocolate...

12) my aunt, uncle, & cousin & her husband own a successful bar in a nearby town

13) I still attend the church I was baptized in at age 12

14) I've only moved away from my hometown to attend college..and I like it that way

15) I live in the same house I grew up in

16) I twist my hair when I'm thinking or nervous...& my grandfather did the same thing!

17) I read mainly books on spiritual growth & Christian fiction, & I have ADD when I read, I'll often read two books, read some of one & then read some of another. You don't even want to see the stack of books next to my bed!

18) I've only in the past year & a half started running...and I'm starting to enjoy it more

19) We went to new Orleans on our honeymoon, & I fell in love. I want to go back again someday

20) I went to Washington DC with my high school band, in january, it was cold but the most memorable part of the trip was seeing The Vietnam Wall in person.

21) give me history channel, biography, & discovery channel over HBO & Starz any day of the week

22) I LOVE Marilyn Monroe, I have posters of her up in my kitchen, several biographies & picture books of her life, & her movies.

23) I adore Audrey Hepburn, LOVE, LOVE Breakfast at Tiffany's

24) I watch romantic comedies starring Doris Day & Rock Hudson, & I like it!

25) I secretly like it (sometimes) when my husband visits his buddies on the weekends, I get control of the remote (LOVE YOU BABE!!)

- Just a small town girl on the go

Small town changes

2011-05-01T18:55:00.001-05:00

I downloaded a book awhile back called Reshaping It All by Candace Cameron Bure. I loved it because it combined faith & re-examine your priorities to put your faith & health on the forefront. Now they have started a challenge known as the 65 day challenge at http://reshapingitall.com/. I've signed up in hopes to re-read the book & start getting my health & my faith a little push.

Now today I'm a little sore because I ran my first half marathon today. :)

See the pretty medal I received?? I ran it in 2:44, which was good considering it rained on us, gusting winds, & a pause for a hail storm that skirted by. They asked us to wait unless we thought we could finish in 25 minutes, I waited thinking I didn't want to mess my foot or knee up ( got injured training for the race). As I saw people passing by, I decided what the hey, & jumped back in.

Please excuse the hair- I had a hat on this morning. And my 3 year old took the picture.

Here's Miss E with my medal on. I had fun even with the weather not working with us. 1st Half down- wonder how many I can do??

- Just a small town girl on the go

Easter Time

2011-04-26T21:07:00.000-05:00

We got up Easter morning and made Resurrection Rolls thanks to the Women Living Well blog. The kids LOVED them, and so did I and of course we told the story as well. We then went to church where we enjoyed a great message and then the kids had an Easter egg hunt.

Miss E and trying to hunt eggs in a dress

Mr L at the church egg hunt

My two munchkins

Again it's been too long since I've blogged because of training for a half marathon this weekend, kiddos, hubby, work, and school.

I have to say though, my little girl is growing by leaps and bounds. Sometimes I barely recognize this little lady standing in front of me. Just today her Daddy was telling her about whales on discovery channel and she said golly!! She is definitely her own woman with her own personality. She likes her kitties, tinkerbell, and her dinosaurs and rats. She's such a little girl, but so not prissy.

Well gotta go get my ipad away from my husband playing a game so I can do some homework.

Long time No See..

2011-04-18T20:13:00.000-05:00

Sorry it's been so long, but things have been a little crazy around here.

Mr. L has been involved in t-ball so we've been going to game & practices. He's doing really well and today was the first time he had to hit off the tee. The rest of the time he's hit it off the pitch.

Miss E is growing like a weed and has such a personality!! We are a strange combination of girl/boy. We will wear our princess high heels while playing in the dirt with fake lizards and snakes.

I've been busy with the kids, housework and school This semester is thankfully winding down. I'm also training for a half marathon in two weeks so I've been busy with my running as well.

Ok - back to homework - we just got back from a t-ball game and I whipped up some tuna fish sandwiches and mac & cheese. Now it's time to type some notes and work on an assignment.

Wordless Wednesday

2011-04-06T19:09:00.001-05:00

My kiddos throwing rocks in the lake

Posted somewhere in a small town by a small town girl

Top Tuesday

2011-04-05T13:55:00.001-05:00

Some of my top things on this Tuesday...

5. T-ball season had started, so the laughter & fun is in full swing.

4. Potty training is going along great!! We've got everything but at night taken care of. Miss E is doing great.

3. Only 4 more weeks till the end of the semester!! Yeah!! I so need a break to let my brain recharge.

2. Ran 7 miles on Sunday. Longest run so far, and only 4 more weeks till my first half Marathon. So excited!!

1. Summertime is nearly here & we are already planning a trip to the coast this summer. one to take the kids to the beach & one with just us grownups for my hubby's birthday in August. Can't wait!!

- Posted somewhere in a small town by a small town girl

Blessings

2011-03-24T20:35:00.000-05:00

Lord,
During this time of uncertainty in our world and in our community, I ask for your blessings. I ask for your blessings on our community at our school, families who have lost homes to fires, and families that have lost loved ones. Please Lord wrap your arms around those that are lost today and guide them in Your ways.

Lord you know who needs you most and who thinks they need you the least. Lord you know what each of us need and I ask for your guidance during these times.

"Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy set before him endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. Consider him who endured such opposition from sinful men, so that you will not grow weary and lose heart." Hebrews 12:2-3

Tuesday Time

2011-03-22T21:53:00.000-05:00

Nothing really exciting has happened round our household here lately.

So I'll just say that the time change has kicked all of our booties here lately. During spring break we didn't go to bed on time and slept late. Now that we are trying to get back in the swing of things with work, school, housework, dinner, homework, and now we are throwing t-ball into the mix, I need another break.

I'm sure t-ball pics will follow, but for right now I'm going to type up some notes for my quiz tomorrow, before I fall asleep with my laptop in my lap....ssssnooorrrreee

Spring Break Vacation

2011-03-20T20:02:00.000-05:00

I haven't been online because we went camping over Spring Break. We took our nephew and the kids to the coast to visit some friends of ours and the boys went fishing in the ocean.

After going to the coast we went to one of the state parks and spent a few days in the camper. Fishing in the lake, hiking, and making s'mores. :)

This is what happens when it rains the first morning we are there. Everyone piled in the bed playing on their handhelds, and Daddy napping.

Me and Miss thing posing for the camera. We went to see the horses but the stables were closed, so she played on a wooden horse they had out front.

Miss Thing got ahold of my camera.

This is what happens when you give my kid a s'more and she just eats the chocolate.

Almost Wordless Wednesday

2011-03-09T19:49:00.001-06:00

This is an almost Wordless Wednesday. This is my beautiful cousin and her darling baby boy Austin Cade, whom they decided to call Cade. He's still in NICU and getting bigger but he's had a few setbacks. Please say a prayer for this little boy and his family. I can't wait till he's bigger where I can hold him and welcome him into our crazy family.

Top Tuesday

2011-03-08T06:07:00.000-06:00

As a little something different I'm going to do some of my top scripture verses that I go to when I need a little help. I actually have more..but the post would be way to long!

5. "I have made you and I will carry you; I will sustain you and I will rescue you." Isaiah 46:4

4. "Everything is permissible- but not everything is beneficial." 1 Corinthians 10:23 (Learned this one from Lysa Terkeurst & her book Made to Crave, excellent book by the way!)

3. "And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through Him." Colossions 3:7

2. Pretty much all of Proverbs 31 - however the one that I strive for is "She is clothed with strength & dignity, she can laugh at the days to com. She speaks with wisdom and faithful instruction is on her tongue." Proverbs 31:25-26

1. "I waited patiently for the Lord; he turned to me and heard my cry. He lifted me out of the slimy pit, out of the mud and mire; he set my feet on a rock, and gave me a firm place to stand. He put a new song in my mouth, a hymn of praise to God. May will see and fear and put their trust in the Lord." Psalm 40:1-5

So there are a few to get you going on this Tuesday morning. Have a wonderful day!

Weekend Wrap-up

2011-03-06T21:41:00.000-06:00

This has been a quick - but great weekend.

Friday night we went to a meeting for some good food. Mr. L got invited to a sleep over and had a blast when I picked him up the next morning. The kids went to a birthday party. I spent the weekend typing notes and working on homework. Today we went a church to hear a friend of our's speak about mission work. It was a totally different format than our regular church. Our home church is more traditional, and although I do love our church and the people at our church. However, the more contemporary worship service breathes life into me like nothing else. Our friend's message was absolutely great. We also went out to eat afterwards with my spiritual mom, Elizabeth, and her family, our friends and kids. I enjoyed the fellowship as much as the food.

Well back to homework & housework before bed...

Fabulous Friday

2011-03-04T21:17:00.000-06:00

Well my Friday was a good day.

Mr L got invited to a sleepover - so he was so excited. It was a spur of the moment thing, and I think the other little boy was even more excited than Mr. L.

We were invited to go to a meeting that was held by our insurance company. A kind of thank -you to its customers within this area. It was good food, but they drew for door prizes. I won $20 as a door prize. Praise God! Free money is always a good thing.

We have a busy weekend ahead with the hubby taking his nephew and Mr L fishing tomorrow, homework, and we are going to another church to listen to a friend of ours speak about their mission work. I can't wait! The format of the worship service is more contemporary than our usual church, and I always enjoy the music at more contemporary services.

But today has been a fabulous Friday!!

Thankful Thursday

2011-03-03T18:57:00.001-06:00

Just a few things to be Thankful for on this Thursday

5. Small "circus's" that come to our town. Yes there were all of 5 people in the circus, and it was clowns, acrobats, and a magician. It wasn't just the best show, but the kids absolutely loved it. Watching it through their eyes helped me enjoy it a lot more.

4. Mr. L has decided he wants to spike his hair in the mornings. Now, his hair is like his father's, course and curly, so it's quite entertaining fixing his hair in the morning. It's rather fun watching my little boy get to be so big.

3. Potty training successes!! My youngest is "thisclose" to being potty trained. She is fine during the day but still wears a pull-up at night. Any mom knows this is a major time of celebration!!

2. Days are getting longer and the weather is so pretty. When we get home the kids can go outside and play in the backyard. I open the windows so I can hear them while I run in and out to cook dinner.

1. One more week till spring break! Can't wait to spend some time with my family.

Wordless Wednesday

2011-03-02T22:15:00.001-06:00

Mr L & friend at circus

- Just a small town girl on the go